EP6-3 FULL: Lương Thiên suy sụp và khóc! Bước ngoặt trong mối quan hệ CP

EP6-3 FULL: Lương Thiên suy sụp và khóc! Bước ngoặt trong mối quan hệ CP

The day I came to the cabin I knew I liked you I think she’s really brave I sincerely wish for your happiness as long as you’re happy So, being moved like this just doesn’t make sense It’ll be hard for me in the future to meet someone as passionate as you again You’re my biggest regret about being here I hope that on the journey ahead you can let go of your burdens and really enjoy the moment As for the future let’s let the future take care of itself I’ll give it my all to reach you How did it come to this? Wo Wo might be seriously ill I’m really worried about her health Isn’t this just real life? Yes If you need to go to the hospital just let me know and I’ll come That’s so thoughtful When I saw Liang Tian today I could feel her speechlessness and then her helplessness Is he avoiding me, or what is he doing? I don’t know Did I put too much pressure on him? Did I do something wrong? Download the Soul APP now Where interesting souls meet freely This program is exclusively brought to you by Soul APP, the app young people love Exclusively sponsored by Soul APP Discover global beauty and health products Discover global beauty and health products Check out the Watsons mini program on WeChat Thanks to Watsons for supporting beauty and health Co-sponsored by Watsons Let’s get started I can sense it She might not get what I’m doing Deep down I keep wondering how I should express myself to her It’s something that’s been on my mind these past few days I’ve more or less sorted out my thoughts I just need to work up the courage to step out the door and go see her Are you available? So, where should I go? Alright. Where? The media room, or somewhere else? This spot is nice. Come here. Have a seat here. Please have a seat. Alright, I’ll sit here then. How are you today? I’m pretty good. This afternoon, I hung out with Zhang, Xia Xia, and Yan Yan. We had afternoon tea together. We had a great time. Anyway, I want to share with you what I’ve been feeling these past few days, and some of my thoughts and experiences since I moved into the house. My whole emotional journey, and the thoughts I’ve sorted out now— I wanted to tell you as soon as possible. Sorry for messaging you so late. It’s okay. Ever since the first day, from the moment we were blindfolded, I felt that you are a really talented person. I truly admire you. Yes, I’ve always used this as my way of judging who I admire most and who I most want to get to know better, and I’ve been trying to show that. But what confuses me the most, and even scares me a little, is how in sync we are— not just in every moment, but also in our conversations afterwards. I’ve realized that we’re really similar in so many ways, and honestly, it’s left me feeling a bit confused. and honestly, it’s left me feeling a bit confused. in my mind. Why is it so confusing? What is it exactly that scares you? I don’t know. I’m still feeling all mixed up. In such a rapidly accelerating environment, I just don’t know what to do. Honestly, I don’t really get what you’re trying to say. If you like someone, you just like them. If you don’t, you just don’t. I just don’t think feelings are really that complicated. I feel really muddled about it all. What I especially want to say is that from day one until now, in every conversation, every date, every moment we’ve spent together, I’ve always felt that you’re really amazing. I think I might need to slowly after leaving here, get back to real life and take some time to process everything that’s happened here. My understanding is Even today, I was chatting with Zhang and the others I said I feel like this time everyone here is pretty slow to warm up Maybe twenty-one days just isn’t enough for us I think, given the limited time, everyone should try to spend as much time as possible with the people they’re interested in to be together That way, you get to see what it feels like to be with this person in different situations and stages of life and how it feels So if there are only seven days left and you’re really interested in someone you should make the most of every moment and try to spend time with them in as many different situations as you can You should show them what you’re like when things are exciting and intense But if you create a calm, steady environment and let her see what it’s like to be with you in a long-term, steady way that might be a better way for both of you to figure out how you really feel and whether you want to take things further in a deeper way So the house isn’t really a place for you to make any big decisions Falling in love and staying in love are two totally different things You can’t figure out how to stay in love just by being in the house the staying-in-love stage Honestly, you keep saying you want to get things organized. I really have no idea what exactly you want to organize. It was only after hearing everyone’s letters that I was able to see my own feelings more clearly. After hearing everyone’s letters— yours, and especially Xiao Hou’s— I realized he could express himself that way— so why can’t I? You are indeed a bit different from Xiao Hou. The way you express yourself also takes a bit more thought to figure out. You’ve got me feeling a bit all mixed up. You said I could see through you. But honestly, I don’t fully understand you. I see Yonghao as the sun. But you, you’re the moon. The sun is easy to understand— I mean, I can see right through the sun. I’m really curious about you, really interested in you. To me, this person is like the moon. They’re always changing. I’ve never heard anyone say they want to explore the sun. But the moon, it’s mysterious. In literature, it’s the moon that gets people thinking. But I don’t think anyone can be completely understood. Yeah. Even if you say Yonghao is the sun, you can see more of him. Right. His intentions are clearer. Right. But even he keeps changing how you see him. He’s one way today, and tomorrow, he’s different again. You always have to spell it out for me What exactly are you thinking about? What exactly are you unsure about Exactly what is it? Compared to you I don’t know When I see you I feel like your personality is similar to mine But you are just so incredible So talented and amazing and so gifted It’s hard to put into words how much I admire you Like that day in Xishuangbanna When you were with those older brothers and sisters in Tibet you expressed your appreciation for their talents and thanked them and praised them And when they asked you to sing a song you could immediately perform one In that instant, I truly felt you were incredibly charming —it was such a beautiful moment And I feel like in situations like that it’s something I could never do myself And I think at that moment, you were truly beautiful and remarkable I just want to hold your hand and never let go Can’t love just be simple and free of pain? You’re truly exceptional —in every way, you’re so much more than I am I think you have a glow that’s impossible to miss This is the first time I’ve ever had such a strong reaction to such a beautiful girl. I’ve felt this way. Life in the cabin is almost coming to an end. I just don’t have the courage or foundation to be as brave as Xiao Hou. All I can do is to tell you how I feel as soon as possible and let you know. I hope to give all the remaining time in the cabin back to you as soon as I can, so you can have it all and spend it getting to know the people you want to meet or connect with. Honestly, you can just be upfront about it. If you don’t like me, that’s fine. I won’t be hurt. I think the feelings we’ve had in the house are truly genuine. But as for me, I’m not sure about my own feelings. So I can’t give a definite answer. I’ve been struggling with this question for a long time. I just couldn’t come up with an answer. I kind of get it. But I also kind of don’t. Did I get it wrong? Did I take it the wrong way? Honestly, I have so many questions. What did those things you used to do really mean? Like when you’d just get off work, rush all the way over, and show up with your hands all red just to see me. Hey I made it just in time. I rushed over as soon as I got off work. Luckily, I managed to make it in the end. That’s why I’m not quite sure. If I hadn’t come here, maybe I wouldn’t be under so much pressure. But I don’t regret coming here. Whether it’s all this inner turmoil or all these tears, they will nourish me and make me stronger. That’s how people grow. I really didn’t give her a clear answer. To be honest, I find it hard to express. If I think about it with my heart, I definitely like her. There are so many moments when I feel my heart races because of her. But just following my heart feels a bit irresponsible. Do I really have what it takes, or am I even worthy to stand by her side? These days, I feel like she’s holding herself back for me. It’s like I need her to pause her progress and wait for me to grow. So, rationally speaking, with only twenty-eight years of life experience compared to someone with thirty-five years of life experience and maturity it’s hard to bridge that gap in a short time and close the distance between us I know I’ve left her feeling confused I feel like whether I make a rational choice or an emotional one either way, she’ll get hurt If I act rationally, I’ll hurt her genuine feelings But if I go with my emotions, she might be happy for a while but in the long run it would be really irresponsible of me I struggled with this for a long time So I decided that until I’m sure of my own feelings we should take a break—a cooling-off period Once I have a clear answer in my heart then I can go to her talk to her and explain everything in detail Let me start by sharing how I feel. I’ve noticed that recently, whenever Xiao Hu talks, every time he talks to Liang Tian, he just keeps saying things like “I need to sort myself out.” Like the teacher said, he hasn’t found the root of the problem. So he can’t tell Liang Tian the real reason, and can only show her the result. (see above; merged for fluency) Right. I know this kind of behavior might be hard for people to accept, because they put themselves in his position. But I think in real life, there are actually a lot of people like this. (see above; merged for fluency) I think we should offer them some guidance, give them something to help. I tried to imagine why he would say something like that. “You’re amazing.” If the other person really is outstanding, and you don’t have enough confidence, then whenever you’re with her, you just feel like she’s shining so brightly, and you’re so insignificant. You feel like, “I’m not good enough for you. I don’t deserve you.” (see above; merged for fluency) What I find most serious is that he doesn’t love himself. He just doesn’t have the ability to love himself. He can’t give it to others, because he doesn’t have it himself. He can’t give it to others, because he doesn’t have it himself. I realized that at one point, I was in the same situation as him. We were going through the same thing. But it all depends on you and how you deal with it. I used to be a bit like that myself. I always felt that when you like someone, sometimes their good qualities are just a bonus. Liking someone is often an instinctive, gut feeling. You see someone, and you just feel, “I really like her.” It’s only afterwards that you notice how great she is. It’s not that I start liking someone because I admire them; it’s actually the other way around. When I first got to know my wife, she was a very accomplished violinist. She had played concerts abroad. And she appeared on all the top music variety shows in the country, her presence was everywhere. So I would think to myself, I felt like I was just a minor producer. I couldn’t even get onto the same stages as you. I wished I could meet you on that stage. But what I was thinking was, I didn’t want to keep dwelling on those feelings. I really needed to find a way out, to make it possible for the two of us to meet. How did you later adjust your mindset? The process of adjusting my mindset was actually quite painful. Because not loving yourself is truly painful. Looking back, I feel a bit guilty. I have a truly remarkable partner. I think she played a big part in helping me overcome my feelings of inferiority. She gave so much. I guess I’m just really lucky. Not everyone you meet would do something so selflessly for you. This is Xiao Hu’s own challenge going forward. I really do understand how he feels. Actually, I think Sister Tian is already a very good, supportive partner. From every perspective, whether you look at it from the perspective of his family background, or from the angle of age, I think he really needs to be accountable for his actions. As a 28-year-old man, he should have a sense of responsibility. He needs to take responsibility for everything he says and does, in all aspects. Whether it’s liking someone or rejecting someone, he needs to take responsibility for it. During their conversation just now, Liang Tian was very clear. Liang Tian made a very important point. Falling in love and staying in love are two different things. You need to think about why you can’t continue loving someone. Yes. You need to analyze yourself from the opposite perspective. Only when you are mature can you truly love someone else. Only then can you manage intimate relationships well. His problem is that he’s still not mature. So I feel that his personality is actually very suited for joining the Little House. Right. Coming on this show is already a step forward. Because in real life, it’s even less likely that a third party would encourage him. Right. Others come to the show to find love. Hu needs to find himself. From a girl’s perspective, why do I feel so tired? Why did Liang Tian cry? When I put myself in her shoes, I remember that this boy once so bravely ran toward me. But when I got close to him, what did he do? He retreated back into his own familiar comfort zone. But only if you have the willingness to change this difficult situation or the ability to do so, if we work on this ability together, then I feel like I can rely on you. So when we criticize Xiao Hu or comment on what he does, it’s not about venting our feelings or opinions— that’s not the real point. It’s really about putting the issue on the table so we can all discuss it and see if it’s possible for us to handle ourselves when we’re in that situation in real life. Yes. We also invite our audience to join the discussion— yes— how do we break out of these comfort zones in life and tackle these tough challenges? Sooner or later, we all have to face them. Playing basketball? Sure. Want to come in and sit? Yeah, sure. If you don’t mind, I’ll come in then. You can just move the stuff from the sofa onto my bed. “Yesterday I Was the Moon” “Yesterday I Was the Moon” Isn’t this the one Liang Tian mentioned when talking about him? Is this a poetry book? Yeah, you can take a look. There are a few short poems in it. I think they’re pretty good. Let me have a look. I got this book at the last fashion show. It was a gift. Here, look. “Dear woman,” This is how I describe him I tell him, “You’re like the moon.” Yonghao, on the other hand, is like the sun. The sun is straightforward and passionate. It’s easier to see the sun clearly. The moon often hides behind the clouds. And it changes throughout the month. Waxing moon Full moon Waning moon Humans have explored the moon more than the sun. We’ve landed on the moon, trying to see what’s really on its far side. I said, to me, you’re like the moon. Because I really want to understand what you’re truly thinking. I think we have that kind of mutual admiration and can’t ignore each other’s presence The two of us are the type who are both a bit cautious but both want to slowly move toward each other I feel like he is also bravely stepping out of his comfort zone to choose me like when we played games in Xishuangbanna and even when he chose to go on a date together in the end he always chose me Yes And he picked me when choosing teams too On New Year’s Eve when I put earrings on him and when he returned the earrings to me he asked if I wanted him to help put them back on me Actually, I think that’s a very ambiguous gesture So I just felt he probably likes me. We both really enjoy spending time together. But because I’m very sensitive, I can sense that he’s struggling and holding back. I don’t know what he’s struggling with, or what he’s fighting against. So I have concerns. And I’ve asked him about it before. He said he’d figure things out and then talk to me. Maybe he figured it out last night. I talked to Liang Tian about it yesterday. I asked him, “Are you sure you’ve thought it through?” “Have you made up your mind?” He said, “Yes.” His thoughts are a mess. He’s the kind of person who has a thousand thoughts but only shares a couple. I was actually pretty confused last night. Is he stressed, or is he just overthinking? Maybe he’s gotten a bit scared. He’s trying to escape. I feel like this came out of nowhere. Yeah, it was so abrupt. Seriously. We all feel the same way—it was so sudden. How could this happen? I don’t think it’s embarrassing to like someone. So later, I told him, It’s okay. You were honest with me, and I actually appreciate that. I’m not afraid of getting hurt. Honestly, it’s really fine—it’s just that this guy is a bit confused right now. I don’t care whether he’s figured things out yet. But at this point, it’s fine for him to be upfront with me. I also told him, At least you didn’t wait until the very last minute to tell me about this. You told me now. So I told him, “You’re actually a pretty decent guy.” I just think she’s really cool. Seriously, so cool. Yeah. Because she felt that all this needed was a straightforward answer. But after I finished talking, she ended up comforting me instead. That just didn’t feel right. Not at all. It shouldn’t be you comforting me. This whole thing was my fault from the start. In the end, my thought was I just wanted to give her back whatever time was left in the cabin as soon as possible. I get what you mean. That’s why I said you feel really guilty. Part of it is that you’re worried about wasting her time. So after you said everything, are you now feeling relieved, like a weight’s been lifted off your shoulders? You guys heading out? Yeah, we’re going to play basketball. Oh, basketball? Then we’ll sit this one out. Go ahead. Okay. Bye. Bye. See you. If you want anything to eat, let us know and we’ll bring it back for you. If you want something, we can get takeout and bring it back. Okay, just get whatever you want. You guys decide. Wowo, you’re still coughing. Are you still running a fever? Did you bring the thermometer with you? I didn’t bring it. They should have one at the hospital, right? Should we go get a number now? Which department? Surgery? Which department? Internal medicine. Are you serious? Isn’t this supposed to be surgery? I don’t know. My mind is all over the place these days. I don’t even know what I’m saying. Hey, driver. We’re here, right? Okay. Put your coat on first. Brother Luo lent me this down jacket. He said I wasn’t dressed warmly enough. It’s so cold. Make sure your hat’s on right. I haven’t washed my hair. I feel a bit embarrassed wearing someone else’s hat. It’s okay. I’ll wash it for them again. It’s really cold today. How many days have you had a fever? Two days, I think. It started yesterday. There have been a lot of cases of influenza A lately. Let’s take a routine blood sample. And let’s test for COVID-19. And do nucleic acid tests for both influenza A and B. The results will be ready in about two to three hours. Come back for your follow-up once the results are ready. Okay, sure. Hang in there. Take a seat for now. Are you hungry? A little. Do you want some porridge or chicken noodle soup? Actually, I was thinking about that too. Okay, let’s have that. Let’s go with that. Let’s go. You didn’t bump into anything, did you? No. It’s okay. You could use a guide dog right now. He says he’s your guide dog. A bit clumsy. Watch out for the steps. It’s so cold. It’s so cold. I’ll put two heat packs on you in a bit. Alright. Glass-Skin Crispy Pigeon You’re not allowed to have this today. I won’t eat it. Next time, I’ll pack some for you to take home. I really won’t. How about some congee? Anything’s fine. I’m really cold right now. Can I have a heat pack? I didn’t expect it to be so cold in the room. I’ll put it on your back first. Then you can put one on the front yourself. If you need one on your back, I’ll help you with it. This one doesn’t seem to work very well. Let me get another one. But it shouldn’t be too far from your clothes. So, maybe you could stick it on… Are you wearing something underneath? Yeah. Okay. Or how about here? This spot? Yeah. How about I put a few more on for you? No, that’s enough. Just one in the front and one in the back is enough. No worries, I’ll put another one on the back for you. Stick one over your spleen and stomach area. Put it on. Let me get you a cup of hot water. That’s so thoughtful! That’s right. Hi, could you pour me two cups of hot water, please? Here, this is a cup Maybe this room just isn’t very warm to begin with Yeah Thanks Hey You’re so considerate You don’t really seem like the type who pays attention to every little thing You’re underestimating me again Here, have some soup first I don’t look like it, do I? If your head hurts, want me to give you a massage? Would that help? The pain just comes on all of a sudden It’s fine I didn’t wash my hair today anyway, so no need for a massage I really wanted to make myself get up today and wash my hair It’s okay, just try to hold on for a few more days If you shower now, it might make things worse Right So don’t stress about it, alright? To me, you’re always perfect And then you just have that filter But not everyone sees you through that filter Don’t worry, everyone sees the best in you Over here! I finally got on the bus! I’m chilled to the bone. It’s fine, you can just stay in the car. I’ll go grab the report for you. If the result is positive or negative, what should we do? How about I call up to you from downstairs? Alright, then. I really need to warm up for a while. Yeah, just stay in the car. Just let me out here. And let her stay in the car for now. Okay, hurry up and close the door. Quick, close the door. So the wind doesn’t get in. Yeah. Hi The report is ready Could you take a look for me? She’s feeling really unwell at the moment Is there anything else she can take besides cold medicine? Is there anything else she can take besides cold medicine? One more thing I’m not asking about how to take this medicine You mean this list, right? Yeah, everything’s listed there How are you feeling? It’s nothing serious. Your prescriptions are ready. So I just need to take the medicine, right? Yes. It’s nothing to worry about, but you might feel a bit dizzy with this one. Let me go over it with you. There’s one to help with your cough. And another one to help clear phlegm. Take one pill twice a day. One pill each time. Thanks. Such a lazy day. Have a good rest. It just means your body wants you to rest. That’s why you feel this way. Isn’t that right? Alright. Why don’t you play by yourself for a while? Go play on your own for a bit. Hold on a second, driver. Zip up. Alright, thanks. Okay, let’s go. No rush. The fever’s already making me dizzy. I know you must have a really high fever right now. It’s making me a bit woozy. Don’t worry about changing your slippers right now. How about I bring them up for you? All these little things… He’s so meticulous. I really feel out of it when I walk. Where’s your cold medicine, kiddo? What’s wrong, Xia Zhiguang? He calls her “kiddo.” It’s a nickname. It seems like, when you like someone, it’s easy to treat her like a little kid. Yeah. Where’s your cold medicine? The one I gave you last night. It’s over there. You can open the window. But could you move in a bit? I feel really awful. Look, I’ve washed my hands. Alright, I’ve washed my hands. This is so important. Right. He’s so detail-oriented. Exactly. It’s so cold. Listen to me now. And don’t worry about anything. Just wrap yourself in a thick blanket and get some sleep. Alright? You get some rest first. I’ll lie down for a bit too. Please try to get some sleep, okay? Go to sleep. Okay. Guo Guo Come on in. I’m going to hang my clothes here. If you feel like going downstairs to eat later, I’ll be downstairs the whole time. Don’t worry, I’ll stay downstairs. If you want to go down to eat, just go whenever you want. I’ll be downstairs the whole time, alright? And if you want some fruit or anything else, it’s all downstairs. Tonight, before bed, you can sleep until I think maybe eleven or twelve o’clock, or even one or two, that’s totally fine. I’ll come up later to give you your medicine. Okay. Alright, go ahead and turn off all the lights. Okay. Thanks. Good night. I actually need to start with a blue base. And then I add the trees at the end, right? Right. Alright. I’ve leveled up. Just two drawings and you’ve already improved! We all know how to draw now. Yeah, pretty much. Alright. That’s about it. Let’s leave it like this. Let’s add a bit more here. Where? Right here, add some white. Add white here. Go get changed. Go wash your feet. I can hear Teacher Luo’s voice. Hello, everyone. You’re back. Everyone’s learned it now. We’ve all picked up some new skills. Come here, Brother Zhang. That’s really good. Hey, Chen. Let me draw one for you. You did such a great job. Sure thing, man. Thanks for making me look so good, man. Thanks, you really did a great job. Another landscape, huh? Your landscape is also of a cottage. Yeah, I’m drawing a cottage. I’m drawing the shadow of this tree now. But I think it’s kind of hard to draw. Looks like you’re about to draw a whole set. A whole set? A set of cottages. Liang Tian is drawing the picture she posted yesterday. My senior has already developed her own style. The railing school, the wall school. Come on, let’s go. Let’s go, my hand’s killing me. My hand is way too dirty. Look, ever since we came in, Xiao Hu hasn’t said a word. Yeah, that’s true. You drew that really well. This tree’s shadow is really hard to draw. Wait, I have to show off a bit— my artwork. Let me show you how much I’ve improved! Have a look. Take a look, Xiao Hou. Xiao Hou, have a look. This is number three’s first one. This one belongs to number nine. Can you see any improvement? They’ve improved again. This time it looks more 3D. Look at the brushwork. Right? Yeah. Lao Luo. Look at the brushwork. That’s impressive! There’s definitely progress. Isn’t there? Yeah, definitely. I think it’s really well drawn. It’s really well done. What’s this? Is it Venom? Tree shadow. It’s a tree shadow. Tree shadow. Oh, I thought it was Venom. Look at this. Do you see any improvement? This one was drawn on the third (of the month). This one was drawn today. This one is obviously today’s, isn’t it? Yeah, it looks good, doesn’t it? This one has a much better sense of depth. Yeah. Looks good. And I managed to bring out the texture of the wall, too. The texture really comes through. Genius! Let’s just put it here. Let’s turn the kitchen into my art gallery. Liang Tian is so nice. She’s so generous and at ease. Really generous. I think her maturity is really obvious— she’s especially mature for her age. I just treat her like any other boy, just like an ordinary kid. Everyone, come check out my new painting! This is the only interaction we’ve had today. I really want to treat him like any other boy, but I just can’t do it yet. It’s only been less than twenty-four hours since this happened. I know I need to treat him like a normal person. You’ve already done really well. I think she needs to find a boy who can give her a hug. Yeah. What did you all draw? Let’s have a look. Over there—those two. Those two. One was drawn by number three earlier, and the other by number nine. Can you see any difference? Let’s see how Yonghao praises them. The perspective is different. What’s the difference? What’s different? Take a moment to think about it first. How would you say it? Xia Xia is pointing out the key points. Is it because the painting styles are different? This one’s different. Never mind. No need to flatter me. Just stop. Maybe it’s the weather that’s different. She painted both of them. So they must both look good. You… Even when you try to give a compliment, you can’t do it properly. Su Lately, I feel like in the small room, I’ve been running the air conditioner a lot, my face has gotten really dry and keeps flaking. I’m fine, though. I’ve been using this skincare set. It’s the Watsons men’s facial cleanser and moisturizer. This set is great for controlling oil and keeping your skin moisturized. It’s really effective. You should try it out. You’re really my teacher—always teaching me something new! And now, if you order through the Watsons mini program on WeChat, it can be delivered in just 30 minutes. It’s super fast. That quick? That’s awesome, I’ll go try it right now. It’s definitely worth a try. Try it out. Let’s go. Let’s do it. Did you guys play basketball today? Did you go up against Lao Wan? No, not really. It’s fine. I just joined his team. We played four to a team. Wanwan, didn’t you knock anyone over? Me? As soon as he got the ball and someone tried to stop him, they’d just foul him right away— he’d get grabbed immediately. Let me tell you, I can play basketball too— I specialize in airballs. You don’t even need to add ice to this. Is it really that cold? Nice one. I was all set for a layup. But in the end, it just barely grazed the rim. My brain just short-circuited. I just froze up. You really know your stuff—seriously. You really know what you’re doing. You hit me right where it hurts. How’s that? Bet you can’t even throw an airball, huh? Pretty impressive. Right? Seriously, that’s badass. Back in college, we had to fight to get into PE classes, and I managed to snag a spot in basketball. So there we were, dribbling in the dead of winter. So there we were, dribbling in the dead of winter. The teacher told us to do a layup, so I went for it. The teacher told us to do a layup, so I went for it. The teacher told us to do a layup, so I went for it. But it ended up being a total airball. The ball just dropped straight down, didn’t it? That ball never even made it up into the air. I went out with three girls during the day. At night, I grabbed some drinks. Two days in a row. My life is perfect. He only wanted to tell us the first half. This man has changed. This man. While we were out on the court, physically clashing with other guys, he was here having a mental sparring match with three girls. Bro, let me ask you— how do I date three guys at the same time? No problem. Just join us and stick to the “three no’s.” Liang Tian Hey, what’s up? Come over here. What are you doing? Come here, now. Hurry up. I gotta go. What are you doing? Where are you going? Wait up. I’ve got something for you. Ms. Su That was awesome. This is going to be awesome. Hang on a sec. What’s this? Here, take it. No pressure, really. No pressure at all. Honestly. Seriously, there’s no pressure. In their relationship, Yonghao is always telling her not to feel pressured. Yeah, no pressure. Yeah. He’s always the one looking out for her feelings. Don’t turn it over, seriously. Just don’t. Really, don’t. You can open it later, there’s no hurry. Alright, thanks. I just wanted to give this to you, nothing more. There’s nothing else behind it. Are you serious? Really. It’s not expensive, so don’t worry. Really. Honestly. I told you, I don’t like luxury stuff. So I didn’t get anything fancy. No, really. It’s really fine. You sure? Who else would I give it to, if not you? Alright, I’ll take it. Thanks. This surprise Actually, ever since the day we went to the concert together I’ve wanted to prepare it Alright. You haven’t opened it yet? Because she told me her mom gave her some succulents for her to take care of. her mom wanted her to look after them. Once, when she came from Shenyang to Changsha, she even went out of her way to bring me two of the little succulents she’d been growing. She said, “Here, you take care of them—they’re really easy to keep alive.” But a month after she left, I ended up killing them. So I bought myself a miniature landscape—the kind with moss. It’s the kind with moss. I thought, “This moss will definitely survive. As long as you spray it with a bit of water, it’ll be fine.” As long as you spray it with a bit of water, it’ll be fine. I made it myself. He made one too. A little moss landscape. This is really nice. Because I really did notice that she seemed a bit unhappy these past couple of days. Are you guys leaving? Yeah, we’re going to play basketball. Basketball. Then we won’t go. Bye. Another landscape painting. You also paint landscapes. There’s a little house in this one, too. Yeah, I’m painting a little house. See, he came back to check on her right away. He knows she’s feeling really down. Yeah. Today, she deliberately sat at the opposite corner from Lao Hu. I did mention it a bit. It seems like something’s going on with them. I could sense it. I noticed everything. I feel this is just the right moment to give this gift to her. All I hope is that she can find herself again. I just like that simple and happy side of her. I hope I can bring her a bit of happiness. Yonghao is actually pretty great. It’s just that one sentence. Just finding yourself again is enough. I just hope she can find herself again. Just living simply and happily is enough. He really acts like Xia Zhiguang. Yeah. Just now, in that last part, we could see Xiao Hou looking after Wo Wo. Including taking her to the hospital, rushing back and forth, and being so attentive and caring once they got home. Honestly, this really got to me. If he’s still like this ten years from now, that would be amazing. That’s it. Yeah. Exactly. Because in the early stages of a relationship, especially during the courting phase, it’s totally normal. No matter if it’s the guy or the girl, if one of you gets sick, and you love them, you should really take good care of them. Right. I have a really strong and very personal feeling that I just want to share with you all Back in the early days, Hou Chengjie always gave me the impression that whatever he said was always exactly right always spot on Like, were we thinking the same thing? Right? Yeah, at the time I just thought, wow, he’s really good at this It was like he always had the perfect answer ready to go He talked a lot and was really articulate So back then the way he went after Wo Wo just felt kind of unreal to me Me too Yeah, same here. He just seemed a little too perfect, you know? It didn’t feel real Yeah Yeah Sometimes I feel like if he were a bit more awkward or made some little mistakes it would feel more genuine And just now, in that scene with the two of them since Wo Wo was sick and you could see she wasn’t wearing any makeup or had her hair done her acne scars and everything were just out in the open I didn’t say much more but instead showed it through my actions when I did certain things Anyway, I felt that earlier Xiao Hou seemed more real to me Right Actually, I liked what you just said about that sense of change, the before and after There are two things about Hou Chengjie that stood out to me First, when he gave her medicine, he would say, “I’ve washed my hands.” He would say, “I’ve washed my hands.” And the second detail that really got to me is that I’m actually really afraid of getting sick When he came back Wo Wo asked him, “How did it go? What were the results?” Hou Chengjie just said “It’s fine,” “It’s nothing.” That showed a lot of sensitivity He cared about me and didn’t want to make it sound serious and scare me In that moment, I felt that detail really touched me It made me feel I realized how much I really like him Honestly, I just feel like his previous behavior of being anxious and insecure and the way he made us feel that he puts a lot of pressure on others is actually just who he really is. Yeah. If he really was as perfect as everyone imagines, he shouldn’t be so anxious and insecure. He might just say, “Okay, I respect you,” and calmly talk things through with you. He’d patiently explain everything. It’s only because he really likes her that he gets so anxious and insecure. That’s why, in front of the camera, he shows that side of himself and makes everyone feel the pressure he’s under. It’s just that he likes her so much. Yeah. I think when two people interact, the changing dynamics can really bring out different sides in both of them. I used to always complain. I used to say that my wife was too strict with me. She was always signing me up for tutoring classes. It made me unhappy. But when I got sick, she treated my illness the same way. She’d say about my illness, “It’s time to take your medicine.” “You have to take your medicine.” In the same tone, and with the same approach as when she signed me up for tutoring classes. She’s the same person. But in different situations, I have different feelings. There’s a good side to it. I think when I experienced her care while I was sick, that care in that situation but I also have to accept her strictness with me in everyday life. Yeah. I think it’s the same for Wo Wo. Maybe you should also think about whether, when you accept the good side of someone, you should also accept their other side. Sometimes, being too sensitive can put a lot of pressure on you. Yes. That’s a choice you have to make. And I think there’s something beautiful about that, in my opinion. Maybe it’s something that takes both people time to gradually accept about each other. You put that really well. Right. Have you ever experienced something like that? For example, times when you felt really weak, like when you were sick. I think everyone has probably gone through that at some point. When I had surgery myself, because it was during a really unusual time. Yeah, it was a really unusual time. Yeah. So when I had the surgery, it was actually the first time in my life I’d ever had general anesthesia. Getting around was really difficult at the time. My family was in Hefei. And I was in Beijing. So I went to the hospital alone, checked in by myself, did all the pre-op tests on my own, and then had the surgery under general anesthesia—all by myself. Next time, call me, okay? Sure, sis. But deep down, you still kind of wish someone could have been there at that moment to look after you, right? I’m not sure. It’s just my personality— I’m the type who likes to try doing everything on my own. So when I was under anesthesia, there wasn’t a single friend or anyone else there. I did feel a bit down at that moment. But then I thought, wow, I’m actually pretty awesome. Yeah. It’s kind of cool. Yeah, I went through the whole thing by myself. Pretty brave, actually. What about you, Tangtang? Have you ever done something like that? I think after being together for so many years, we’ve definitely looked out for each other at times. I think that, up to now, the two of us have been through some pretty rough moments and we’ve both seen each other at our worst. For example, I think that up to now, the lowest point for me, was during my confinement period after giving birth. That whole time was extremely difficult and painful, and I was really at my most vulnerable. He saw all of this and was there with me the whole time. He also went through some rough patches himself. I kept applying medicine for him and stayed by his side. So you two really support each other, don’t you? Yes. So I was just wondering, ten or twenty years from now, will it still be like this? I think that’s really important. Actually, you notice that Wo Wo is also in a rather vulnerable state. Someone who’s sick and maybe not feeling very optimistic. So beautiful, so radiant—that’s the version of myself I showed in front of Xiao Hou. But when two people are together, as they spend time with each other, real things inevitably happen between them. These experiences gradually allow your true self to emerge, little by little. And that’s what makes you special to me, or me special to you. Because I’ve seen a side of you that no one else has. Yes, that side. Exactly. Let’s go. Tensions are running high in the cabin as well. Let’s keep watching their date. Okay. I love you Not just because you’re beautiful President Su I can see hope now I’m even starting to hum a little song Every glance from you touches my heart Go grab the takeout It’s not cold. It’s fine. Not particularly cold. She’s holding a wowo tou—a steamed corn bun—in her hands. She seems a bit better today. Yeah, she does seem better today. Liang Tian… She really does look better. It just makes me really uncomfortable to see Liang Tian like this. Not as upset? Not like yesterday. Right. A couple of days ago, I saw her She and Lao Hu seemed a bit off. You really notice the details. Everyone noticed it too. That was the day of the letter. And then the misunderstanding just kept getting worse. What happened? I don’t know either. I thought they’d be doing well. It’s only been a few days, though. Even an honest judge can’t settle family matters, so it’s best not to get involved. I think when Lao Hu wants to talk, for example, he’ll let you know, or something like that. Or, you know? Because I don’t want to feel like I’m taking advantage of the situation. I get what you mean. Yeah, I’ve always just been myself. But now, from that point of view, it feels like… So, are you still going to go after it? Of course. You will? Yeah, I’ve always just done my own thing. Just doing my own thing. I’ll keep at it. Yeah, if there are still chances to go out or choices to make, I think I’d still want to. Got it. That’s pretty upfront of you. Yeah, Yonghao’s a really good guy. Let me just put my shoes down. Sure. Have you been okay these past couple of days? Have you been okay these past two days? Not so great. I know. But I… It’ll be fine. I’m actually much stronger than I thought I was. A lot stronger, really. I think I’m doing pretty well. But I shouldn’t force myself to act tough. It’s okay to have some emotions sometimes. But I don’t really see the need to get emotional. It is what it is. That’s just how it is. What else can I do? I’m just a little puzzled. It’s just… It’s the kind of confusion I just can’t figure out on my own. And then… But I don’t think it’s something that can be clearly explained. I get it. You probably understand, right? Or maybe you don’t. Actually, you don’t really get it. I’m finished eating. Maybe I should understand, right? I don’t understand you. You don’t understand me. I don’t understand you. But I… I don’t dare to make predictions that far ahead either. But I understand about 70-80% of what he’s thinking (Hu Yunting). You’re talking about that situation. Some things are just the way they are. Let me tell a dark joke. It’s kind of like, For example, For example, if I get this kind of outcome with you, It’s the same for him. I would also think, “That’s just how it is.” Yeah, that’s it. That’s just how he is. That’s just the way things are. That’s just the way it goes. Yeah, that’s right. But I just… I have my doubts, you know? But I think this doubt… there’s really no point in questioning it further. It’s just that for me, it causes a lot of inner turmoil. It’s pointless. I know what you mean. But if this stuff really makes you unhappy, Yonghao is taking his time looking up and matching information right now. He’s working on the questions now. He’ll definitely get it done. I’m just about finished. I might’ve still felt it yesterday. But I’m feeling much better today. Yeah, you’ll definitely figure it out in the end. But I think we can just have a chat. Sure, let’s chat. Let’s eat first. Let me soak this for a bit. Just set it aside for now. Go ahead and eat a bit first. It’s okay. What can you do? Whatever. For instance, take relationships. I was talking to Xiaxia the other day, I told her that when it comes to relationships, it’s marriage that can end in tragedy, but love itself never does. For example, Let’s talk about how you see life. When you think about life, everyone’s life ultimately ends the same way: with death. When we talk about death, some people feel sad, others get sentimental, and see it as a tragedy. But if your life is rich and full, then your death isn’t a tragedy. The same goes for love. Is autumn really just the tragedy of spring? If the seeds you plant in spring bloom into flowers, but don’t bear fruit in autumn, does that make autumn a tragedy? Not necessarily. You can’t dismiss the flower that blossomed in spring just because there was no fruit in autumn. Exactly. So, there’s no such thing as tragedy in love. Even those so-called tragic love stories people talk about— the tragedies in legends and all that, I don’t think those relationships were really tragedies either. That ending was simply autumn arriving. Yeah. So clear-headed. Just look at that maturity. Shi Tiesheng, My Days at the Temple of Earth That was in autumn. Thank you Are you guys ready? Let’s eat They ordered small wontons Can I have a bite? I just finished eating Go ahead, have a little I can’t eat much more In the end, what I realized was If you ever had good feelings for this person If you ever had good feelings for this person That’s the most important thing you got out of it Yeah That’s it Spending time together was really enjoyable That’s right There’s no need to focus on the unhappy moments After all, there were happy times too So, when are we heading out? Let’s head out after we eat. Yeah, as soon as we’re done eating. So, it’s probably just the four of us, then. What are you guys up to? Playing badminton. Just the two of us. You two? Aren’t you playing badminton too? Aren’t you also playing? No worries. Way to go, Mr. Luo! I’ve got your back, bro. Did you invite everyone? No, not everyone. I just invited the people who were there yesterday. So, I guess whoever was there can come, right? Then come join us! Come on! Hey, Su Yonghao. What do you want to do tomorrow? Should we plan ahead? Yeah. Like, maybe we could go a bit earlier. And then go play some badminton. Or do something else together as a group. I think that’d be a lot of fun. Yeah. I was still part of it last night. How come I’m suddenly left out? That really sucks. Oh, I see. I had no idea. You only told me this morning when I woke up. I thought it was just going to be the two of us. Sorry about that. That’s rough. I was just thinking, people are playing badminton over here, and people are playing badminton over there too. Are they playing together? Doesn’t seem like it. Looks like I’m playing by myself. No problem. Why don’t we all go together? Okay. Alright. Grab your book and join us. So, the four of us will go. Sure, let’s go. Let’s go. Who’s driving? We have to drive? I’ll drive. Hey, I’ve driven race cars before, you know. That’s impressive. And they were manual transmission race cars. That’s so cool. Let’s go. The weather is amazing today. Hurry up. Let’s soak up the little bit of sun we have. Photosynthesis. I’m back to life, guys. A little sunshine is all I need. Time to conquer the world. A perfect day. I’ll ride shotgun. Sit down. Come sit up front with me. Okay, we’re off, friends! It really feels like we’re going on an outing. I’m so excited! The weather is so nice today. The sun is out. It feels so nice. But why is there still a moon up there? The moon’s out way too early. The moon. Did the moon even set, or not? Let’s stop talking about the moon already. The sun’s already shining on your car. Right. The moon. Right overhead. You can see the moon in the daytime every day now. It’s so annoying. Seriously. I know. You know. I know. That got a bit heavy. We’re here to have fun today. Yeah. Let’s go have some fun. We’ve arrived! It’s cold here Seriously, it’s pretty cold Let’s drop off our stuff We’ll warm up once we get moving Good thing I wore long johns Alright You wore long johns to exercise? Are we playing? Let’s play How are we splitting up? Let’s split into black and white teams Us two against you two That’s a bit unfair Just kidding Come on, that’s too much, teacher Black and white teams Let’s go Black Black and white pairing Alright Fate The way fate arranged things Front or back? Me I don’t really get it I’m easy, whatever works Me again I’m relying on you I’m just here to get lucky Let’s go I chose the black and white pairing because I was worried Liang Tian might feel a bit awkward, just in case She might feel a little uncomfortable Because today When I invited her to play badminton She probably didn’t know yet that Yonghao would be joining us But in the end, fate had its own plans There’s nothing we can do about it Everyone’s really nice Xiaxia is great too Badminton is a group activity And exercise really helps people relax I think she could use some exercise too I didn’t win back the hat game last time But today, I’m going to win it all back What are you up to? I’m pretty agile. Yeah, except when it comes to strength, I’m actually good at everything else. I was a bit surprised to be paired with Luo Junfan. It caught me off guard. He’s actually pretty good at badminton—better than I expected. Not bad at all. Xia Xia really has an eye for noticing what’s great about Luo Junfan. Yeah. Most of the time, only Xia Xia seems to notice. Old Su… Oh no. With him here today… Things are going to get awkward. Those two are actually getting along pretty naturally now. After we talked things out, it got a lot better. Yeah. That was so close! It’s this light—it’s just not good. This light is too bright… It really gets in your eyes. Yeah, this light is no good. He’s so cute. Your turn. Come on, Old Su. I’ll go. Okay. You go. Actually, when I’m paired with Liang Tian, I really like how she speaks up. She’ll say, “I’ll get this one,” “You take that one,” So playing with her is actually really easy. She does her part really well, so I just have to cover the rest. Honestly, it’s the kind of happiness that makes me wish every day could be like this. Feels like they’re always targeting my side. Watch this. Now I’m coming at your side. Trying to “kill” me, Old Su? How dare you try to “kill” me! He’s so aggressive! That’s way too much! Luo Junfan isn’t cutting me any slack. It’s three to one. Much appreciated. That’s so mean. How about you guys take a break? How about the two of us play a round? Alright, let’s do it. Let’s play, just the two of us. Come on. I’ll come over. Alright, the “Business Ball” game is underway. Business ball! And now we see Liang Tian. She serves from the side. That was a gentle touch. Nice, scooping it up from below. She kept it low. That ball almost grazed the edge. You can tell our player Xia Xia only knows how to scoop from underneath. Is her pro side coming out? Stir-frying! You can tell right away she’s got what it takes to be a chef. Definitely. Thanks, everyone. Twelve to ten A narrow loss A close defeat We mainly lost because of your slouchy socks. Take off your slouchy socks. Seriously, take off your slouchy socks. The whole time I thought the atmosphere was really, really good. Let me go change into my slouchy socks first. What’s up? What? No. There’s nothing wrong with me changing my slouchy socks. If you don’t keep them in line, they’ll run wild. Those two are actually kind of… Even a bit… Inexplicable. Yeah. They really made me feel so awkward, seriously. Looks like they’re back at it again. Seriously. Luo did it all on his own— He really got everyone hyped up. So even now, I feel like Xia Xia and I are back to square one—as just friends. What’s your score? Four to three. And mine? No need to thank me. You didn’t even let me answer before you hit! What’s your score? No need to thank me. No need to kneel. Seriously, you’re welcome. I feel like going out with everyone really helps me relax and adjust my mood especially today, since we exercised Sure I’m just really happy Suddenly, I feel much better The score is four to eight You still want to play business games with me, huh? Hey, what’s up, kid? Did someone’s humor get to you? Sent you flying? Yeah, it knocked me for a loop. No, let me give you all some advice. Some guys will make you coffee today, but who knows, maybe poison it tomorrow. The sun is really bright today. I feel like I haven’t been out in days. It feels so nice. Yeah. No one’s in the house today, right? So Yan Yan and I decided to take a walk in the park and snap some photos. This bike looks pretty fun too. Can we ride it? Yeah, you can. Come on. Let’s give this one a try. Come on. Is it dirty? This part’s a bit dirty, right? But it seems okay. Wipe it off. You still have some tissues, right? You’re so thoughtful. Head that way. It’s really pretty over there. I want to take a picture. Let me take one for you. Yeah, sure. How does it look? Yeah, it looks good. Isn’t that too low? I like it a bit higher. Now it’s too high. The smart system. The smart system is busy. Come on, Zhang, sign up for a class already. Just hold it like you usually do. Just hold it like this. Just like that. I want a full-body shot. I don’t want a full-body shot. A full-body shot might make you look shorter. You’re so good at this. Set it to 2.4x. Try 2x. Not bad. Yeah. Looks so good! Right? So pretty. Let me try from this side and come back. Okay. That’s how you pose for photos. This one looks good too. It’s really not cold when you’re taking photos. Seriously, you don’t feel the cold at all when taking pictures. The animals least afraid of the cold in the world: penguins, polar bears, and women taking photos. Exactly! What do you think? Here, let me take one for you. I’m not good at it. Now I don’t even dare to take photos. Are you done? This one’s nice. You gotta get your stuff ready. Zhang, you’ve really got the vibe down. Nice. Let’s skip this pose. This isn’t a pose you’d pick. No, I suddenly got nervous when you started taking my picture. Nervous? Yeah. Try moving around a bit. Right. Same here. Now Zhang’s confident. I think you should loosen up the pose a bit. Just relax a bit. That’s it, looks great. Very natural. That works. That looks really good. Looks great. Double speed. I’ve already memorized the double speed. All of Zhang’s moments today are in double time. When you turned a bit to the side just now— —that looked great. We got some good photos today. Alright, let’s go. Let’s go ride bikes. Careful. Here I go! Let’s go for it! Man, it’s cold. How about I make us some Western food today? Today, I’ll just make dinner for the two of us. Go light on the garlic and onions. You’re okay with that, right? Yeah. That’s pretty direct. But it’s nice. Yeah. Just like that time we were up on the mountain. I think it was after we got Lao Su’s letter. He said you two have a lot in common. He was talking about Liang Tian, wasn’t he? I was so surprised. It was like discovering a whole new world. That’s so cute. Now that’s what I call a beautiful misunderstanding. It was such a nice surprise. I don’t have to overthink things anymore. And I don’t have to worry about gains and losses anymore. This is so much fun. Hello. My old crush. I was really treading carefully. Honestly, it was actually pretty stifling. I tried to mentally prepare myself by thinking, “this is just something I have to go through.” Over the past couple of days, I just happened to see that she wasn’t feeling too good. And I think I’m one of the people she’s a bit closer to. So I thought I’d use this song to express how I feel. She really has made her way into my heart. You really caught me by surprise. What the heck? During these two days and one night, everyone gets a chance. But the question is, who do you go with, and who does the inviting? Who is it? Any funny stories after the show aired? Season 4 of “Half-Grown Lovers”—what’s up with that? Left hand: top tier. Right hand… That’s insane! What’s up with that face? Why did I even say that? Save me, Teacher Hou! I was so moved when I saw Xiao Hou’s letters. I was really touched. Xiao Hou is so sweet. You two are already this close? From my god’s-eye view… This is so sweet, bro, I’m a little jealous. This is all for you, bro. I think I still need to work on my facial expressions. Not good enough yet. I can move both my eyebrows like this. Just like, you know, moving that thing. You’re not afraid of long-distance relationships at all. I’m a little afraid. But it seems like the more I’m afraid of something, the more likely it is to happen. I’ve been in four relationships, and all of them were long-distance. I’ve been in four relationships, and all of them were long-distance. But if you’re living alone now, maybe you could get a kitten or something. But I really don’t think it’s a good idea for just one person to have a pet. I mean, what if something happens to you? You need someone on standby at home. The backup is ready to jump in!