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Is this the Water Splashing Festival? This feels fun. I saw her splashing water happily inside. So I also feel very happy. They are quite in sync. I want to hold your hand and never let go. My eyes can’t stop. I keep looking at her. At that moment, the world revolved around her. They should be the happiest couple. My name is Xiaoshuai. Xiaoshuai. Xiaoshuai. Didn’t take this date too seriously. As some kind of signal or sign. The current atmosphere is relaxed. So I’ll just enjoy it. Friends, a friends’ gathering. Yes. Friends’ gathering. Wait a moment. He walked away. The more we shoot, the more it feels. Like it’s not the right vibe. A bit awkward. I don’t eat cilantro. Yes. Cilantro, green onions, don’t eat. Onions, garlic, don’t eat much. Remember it well. Everyone in front of the camera. Some of his actions and mindset might be distorted. In life, it might not be this choice. Yes. I might not be able to handle this pressure for now. At the moment of farewell. I had a lot to say to her. In the end, all words condensed into two. Take care. Quickly get on Soul APP Interesting souls, free encounters This program is exclusively sponsored by Soul APP, which young people are all using Global beauty, healthy products Global beauty, healthy products On Watsons mini program Thanks to healthy beauty, beautiful health Jointly sponsored by Watsons I think words are your way of expressing your feelings in the most genuine way Facing myself I don’t want to escape I also don’t want to hide I won’t deny my fondness for him is still there but if you don’t take this step I won’t move forward anymore I don’t mind taking it slow My dilemma is how to find the right balance to move forward without pressuring others The progression of a relationship is never driven by one person alone to be effective I don’t want her to be influenced by my courage or by this way of pursuing to affect her What I hope for is that she likes me for who I am Everyone only sees the other person It’s just at the beginning that people have some illusions When writing this letter I feel I need to re-examine what I truly want or what I’m thinking in my heart This casual shot looks great. Really. Come on, Xia Xia. Looks good Really looks good Wait a moment Let me post a moment on Soul APP Record it Try to find more hiking buddies for us I am your hiking buddy But don’t you think if we post this place People will definitely be curious and want to come here It’s especially beautiful Super good looking The person reading goes out Is everyone sitting here Yes Yes That can also relieve some tension Reading the letter in public It’s a rare opportunity Please sit I’ll sit here You sit there, I’ll sit here I need to find a pillow It’s a pity that Wowo can’t see this part Old Luo is already brewing emotions. Look, he’s like an old man reading a newspaper. How did he write so much? A stack, a stack, he wrote a stack. It feels like Teacher Luo wrote a book. I’m so worried. What did I end up writing? This letter is considered to contain some rather private content. If I reveal it in front of everyone, I might feel a bit shy. I haven’t been this nervous in a long time. I don’t know if it’s because of the letter’s content or because of the way it’s being presented. In any case, I’m just very nervous. I think the pressure on them is really quite heavy. Is it that heavy? When I walked from the chair to the front I hesitated a little I was thinking Should I reveal my feelings so clearly? I am a bit scared Go, Luo Junfan! Then I’ll start Before coming here Someone told me this He said a day in the cabin is a year in the human world After truly spending these days here I realized These short ten days Have completely become A reflection of my feelings over the past ten years In my thirty years of emotional experiences There was such a person I liked her very much But I never dared to ask her out I once sent a message when I was drunk at night You are my lifelong dream Then during the day I would curl my toes, remembering what was said the night before Then quickly hide in the usual mode of interaction with good friends that kind of interaction mode One day, I don’t remember what triggered it we had another conversation I asked her Are you getting married? She said yes This time, I think I have completely let go When I started reading I realized how the clouds move in the sky how the wind blows I didn’t care at all I just read word by word I felt this letter was not meant to be read to them This letter was meant for me to read Listen up, kid A good person and the right person are two different things In love ask yourself a thousand times what do you really want Once you figure it out just go and love Of course Here, I not only encountered a glimpse but also two people who deeply influenced me I understand very well the intensity of emotions between them and me is certainly not that strong but every interaction in the small room was truly magnified to the extent that it deeply affected me With the first person, there is one thing I find it adorable Thank you for rejecting me so decisively without leaving me any hope I actually wanted to love even if I didn’t succeed I saw you both wearing matching couple outfits These outfits are so fitting I didn’t expect that he would also have such an outfit I bumped into you chatting in the study Sorry Apologies Pretend you don’t know we’re here The book is finished You can take it I really want to sulk but I can still talk to you calmly I know I’ve changed But I will still wish you all the best I am very grateful to have met you because from now on, when I meet someone who makes my heart race I will definitely be more shameless To another very important person I might never forget your face that day She doesn’t know I didn’t have the courage to tell her I had someone I wanted to ask out But her face turned red Her voice was as soft as a mosquito Yet she was resolute Telling me I really hoped to be chosen firmly But at that moment, I was very desperate I refused Even worse She said You already didn’t come to my date Are you going to refuse my date again I was really desperate At that moment, I felt No one deserved to be abandoned more firmly than me You wanted to chat with me When I heard that you had so many complaints and misunderstandings about me I was filled with guilt How could I dare to lift my heart high and then let it fall heavily You know, my first reaction when I saw you was This must be a cool and aloof beauty Very aloof So I labeled myself as “intermittently aloof” Just now, I actually blushed Look, I even trimmed my nails today I really value this date I hope the male guest won’t disappoint me I’m sorry I left too late It’s over Let’s go back then Who doesn’t want to be chosen firmly? So you missed my date And you want to refuse my next date too I think so I’m very confused I don’t understand It seems my body is indeed honest But I really want to be by your side and look at you I also want to cherish Up until now I still think this is self-inflicted What I want to say is You are truly braver than me I didn’t have the courage to say directly that I had someone else I wanted to invite more Instead, I hypocritically hid in my own shell Saying I wanted to cool things down I arrogantly thought this poor euphemism was a better form of language art but I underestimated your grace My first date now seems to be the only date I had here. I really enjoyed spending time with you. I didn’t properly examine my feelings for you. Yet I dared to express my growing affection for you. That was my mistake. You were crying while saying You don’t know how to talk to me anymore But you will still be with me as a “left-behind child” Chatting with me That day you said you would stay up until four or five in the morning To finish everyone’s drawings before the New Year It feels very time-consuming But it’s quite impressive To be able to draw for so long I said you don’t need to rush mine What I really wanted to say was I am not worthy at all But in the end I felt at that time This guy might not be as Happy as he appears on the surface It must be very hard That painting taught me another lesson And it hit me hard These days It is definitely you Who made me see myself clearly I think it will be very difficult for me in the future to meet such passionate people again and you are my biggest regret here If I had to take something from the cabin, it would definitely be the way to love bravely. Thank you. Suddenly, I feel a bit sorry for Teacher Luo. Brother Luo can admit his mistakes in front of everyone. Admit his own mistakes. I think that’s quite impressive. Really impressive. This letter. He wrote it very sincerely. I saw his sincerity. With Lao Luo the relationship between the two is quite delicate now after reading the letter this awkwardness can be resolved A letter to myself I believe this is not a coincidence This must be A fated encounter arranged by destiny An encounter meant for the eleven of us Luo Junfan Actually, I’ve always wanted to write something for you So I’ll just write it here After that conversation, we both stagnated and even regressed Although the next day you still greeted me proactively and asked if I had eaten Yes, I went to the study We seemed to be the same as before just with less eye contact and some deliberate avoidance I actually had internal conflict wondering why this was happening Was I not good enough? I didn’t have enough time to adjust in a day I didn’t expect you to come Am I really not worth being seen? Who doesn’t hope to find love here? Saying I’m not disappointed would definitely be a lie. I put all my effort into every step I take. Every step I take is filled with sincerity and courage. If you don’t wrap yourself up too tightly someone might actually walk in and understand you Thank you Fear of heights Really afraid of heights These five seconds feel so slow Hurry up Come on, Lao Luo No one mentioned that night again Maybe this is the dignity of adults Sometimes I wonder if things had continued from then until now if I hadn’t stayed at home if we had gone out on dates what kind of story would have unfolded could I have helped you break out of your shell could you have slowly learned how to be less cautious you who strive for perfection there are no perfect people in this world you can certainly allow yourself to make mistakes I hope that in the journey ahead you can let go of these burdens and fully enjoy the present as for what the future holds let’s leave it to the future as for love there’s still half the time left in the cabin everything that happens is unknown I believe if I stay true to myself someone will love me wholeheartedly Still a bit touched Yes I got goosebumps Xia Xia is really brave I heard her call my name and when I heard those words I felt a bit ashamed because what she said really moved me it’s just that for a long time there hasn’t been anyone who would firmly reveal their emotions in front of you I don’t know why every time Xia Xia speaks, I feel like crying it’s just so sincere There was a sentence in Luo Junfan’s letter just now I think he gave himself a very heavy judgment or a conclusion He said at that moment I felt that no one deserved more to be firmly abandoned than himself It was heavy Look at his last sentence What I should have taken from the cabin was the ability to love bravely But after listening to his letter I was a bit worried I think the first step to loving bravely is to be a complete self a relatively healthy self So when he talked about taking the method to love bravely while talking about the method he was constantly using the harshest words to pour on himself I felt that he didn’t actually take the method to love bravely I think his bravery is not to love others his bravery should be to first love himself Yes I hope what Teacher Luo said is not just empty words I learned something this time and truly gained some healing energy Yes because I only worked with him for two months but I don’t know what he had experienced before but that scene just now moved me Here are some blessings I hope he can heal in the future if there are any missing parts Yes Okay I can sense that everyone is deeply moved Let’s continue listening Let’s hear what they have to say Keep going While writing this letter, I was thinking In this small room about the changes within myself that have emerged to face or talk to myself properly Every day I come to this little house I feel my emotions are changing dramatically Many long-lost feelings for me Emotions I haven’t felt in a long time Are all coming back one by one And they are magnified greatly I really miss our first date The relaxed atmosphere In that market It felt like we had endless topics to talk about City or not You really get these jokes And on our later dates, I also felt We had so much in common Look at this Is this us This is a snake wearing a hat You too, right It felt so familiar And at the concert We talked about different kinds of music We had very similar tastes This one is my favorite Formed a band called 2Cellos Yes “Nodame Cantabile” Even though our backgrounds are completely different our interests and hobbies and the details of our lives are very similar At that time, I was really looking forward to us gradually warming up to each other slowly opening our hearts to the anticipation of love in a state of mutual understanding going through the ups and downs together But later, it didn’t feel right I just didn’t want to put a lot of pressure on everyone I also didn’t want to put a lot of pressure on Xiao Hu Yes, so why did you agree to meet him at that moment? Yesterday, I just wanted to meet Xiao Hu He reached out to me, and I reached out to him How do you feel about being with him? Very comfortable When we were drifting apart Coincidentally, another girl walked in At that moment, my mind became even more confused I was conflicted for quite a while at that time In this choice I wondered what I should do I always thought I was very firm in making choices about love was a very simple thing and believed my expectations for myself were clear I also considered whether I should leave Macau, China and move to the city you wanted to go to but love is a matter for two people the outcome is always unpredictable and that’s its most attractive aspect Although missing the chance to watch the sunset with you that day was disappointing but after self-reconciliation I understand you have your own thoughts In the end what I want to say is I truly hope you are happy and content So, feeling moved has no reason Being on the same frequency doesn’t necessarily make you feel moved I feel that when I go on a date with her those beautiful memories are also worth writing down spent most of the days in the small house I feel that now I have returned to a relatively calm emotional state like the person who is waiting for her Yonghao is still great Yonghao’s letter, he thought a lot and also let go of some things I feel that his overall state has also relaxed a bit I am quite happy for him Yunting is very nervous I really am I wasn’t nervous at all when writing But now, after hearing everyone’s comments It’s mainly because everyone wrote so well Everyone wrote with genuine feelings Everyone wrote well I’m sure you all did too Keep going When I wrote this letter I spent a long time thinking Then go and write The state of mind actually is really quite tiring It feels a bit like being emptied out I just want to make sure that every word I say is sincere and when I speak I truly hope others hear it or it better conveys what I want to express The experience since entering the cabin can be described as a surreal experience. As the youngest member, I was worried about myself not being as mature as you all. It might make me feel somewhat distant from everyone. But after coming to the cabin, I found myself surrounded by such excellent and motivated people. Despite my somewhat clumsy personality and not talking much, it didn’t take long to integrate into this big family. I am very grateful to everyone. Before entering the cabin, I stubbornly held on to my own views on love. I was not easily moved. But after spending time with everyone, I realized my understanding of my own views on love was limited. Perhaps because of my upbringing, but since joining the cabin, I found myself surrounded by brave people. You don’t let daily work overwhelm you, nor do you let past emotional wounds stop you from diving into the sea of love. This made me start to question my own views on love. Perhaps with honesty, sincerity, and good communication, even if faced with mountainous challenges, it is still worth trying to take the first step towards love. I would feel very lucky to meet someone in the cabin who gives me confidence and courage Will you go on a date with me tomorrow night? Yes, I want to Okay We may not have known each other for long Even so, I feel we have already shared and spent countless wonderful moments together I appreciate your concern and care for me. Is Xiao Hu unable to fit in? Let’s move a bit more this way. You can do it. Thank you. Come on. When I feel pressured and need space or in a small room I try hard to speak but don’t know how to express it this understanding I will take it slowly, step by step to figure out my feelings It’s the feeling of happiness coming too early and too fast It’s like, how did this really happen So you feel it’s a bit unreal, and instead take it slower, even slower So you don’t need to feel pressured Thank you I appreciate you accepting the real me This makes me cherish our daily moments Every time we spend together If possible I want to tell you You might have been strong for too long To the point that you are used to Facing many problems alone Several times I noticed You unconsciously fall into your own Thoughts Then I want to tell you I will always give you space To handle your own matters alone But I hope to take this opportunity to let you know But I hope to take this opportunity to let you know If you need to talk I would be honored to be your listener Quite touching Yes Alright, thank you everyone Great I feel like I expressed everything I wanted to say Although I haven’t Given Liang Tian a clear direction yet Or my thoughts But I truly feel that She doesn’t need to be so strong I was quite moved by Yunting’s letter He is still as always using his own style of expression but I can feel his inner struggle and hesitation I hope he doesn’t exhaust himself too much and doesn’t overthink things because I can feel he is under pressure I hope to see him express his inner concerns and speak them out Alright, I’m starting now. I always thought I was a very solitary person. Lived alone in Changsha for twelve years Had several long-distance relationships Being single for two or three years is quite common. Eating and shopping alone, even having surgery alone is quite normal. Over time, I consider myself in life to no longer need anyone else but I still believe in love and yearn for love Being alone is certainly comfortable but if there is the right person in life wouldn’t happiness be doubled? I’m not in a hurry for romance But the longing for love made me write on my 2025 wish list the first line to have a good relationship Of course I have always felt the significance of a wish is not necessarily to achieve it but to remind oneself to start So here I am The cabin is really a warm and magical place So I want to tell a guy that day we talked so much in the car your vulnerability after letting down your guard actually startled me I felt a bit guilty She is talking about Su Yonghao To clarify my doubts and to make you face these questions are you willing I told you you are so perfect that it feels unreal it must be hard learn to prioritize your own feelings this does not conflict with your willingness to help others even a high-energy little sun needs rest you will definitely get better and better At the same time, I also need to tell another boy You say In past relationships, you rarely voiced your concerns. they didn’t last long. Just unilaterally decide some things This is a bad habit you think you have I haven’t had many relationships I’ve had three relationships But each one lasted about three months Then we would start discussing whether to continue Some ended after three months Some lasted up to six months So they were all very short In past relationships, I was quite unilateral I would unilaterally decide to break up But you need to know When you realize this problem Change is quietly happening Our lives are a continuous journey and a process of growth We are both still growing There is no strict distinction between fast and slow Sometimes being on the same wavelength with you Even surprises me Clearly, our growth experiences and educational backgrounds are so different But similar thought patterns and habits Make it impossible for me to ignore your presence You don’t talk much But every word you say is delicate and interesting You really stand out in my eyes What’s your best dish? My best dish should be beef noodles Did you buy the meat or make it yourself? I stewed it myself Okay I didn’t raise the cow You didn’t raise the cow Sometimes I can also feel your hesitation and indecision I also speculate and analyze thinking maybe he doesn’t care about me that much Thinking too much can be really exhausting sometimes. Occasionally, let yourself off the hook. Give your mind a break. Your heart will guide you. I share these words with you for mutual encouragement. Actually, after entering the small house, I seem to be less afraid of failure. I am also willing for that existence I cannot ignore. to keep trying repeatedly. But my only concern is the fear of putting pressure on others. Like and love naturally come with attention, care, and expectations. Even though it’s so tangled, Even though I am someone who easily lets myself off the hook, I still don’t want to give up the imagination and expectations of love. A relationship where both are independent yet closely connected. Is it on its way? These are all good memories Very good Alright Liang Tian has really been quite brave I think she is in here Yes The person she wrote the letter to wanted to say something in the end A large part of it was written to me What she wrote to me was so gentle And it gave me a lot of space And it gave me a lot of space Gave me time Very touched And also a bit emotional Also a bit guilty I think I should go back Tonight I need to think about it again Everything that happened in the cabin The feelings of being with her Why is he so heavy too? Actually, being able to communicate through letters allows us to see another side of everyone when they write these things down when they put everything into words it still makes me feel that their emotions are very genuine and very passionate I immediately thought of some things we said a few days ago I think it’s more about bringing it out bringing it out into real life because I actually think that in front of the camera some of their actions and attitudes might be distorted I guess maybe all of us might not make the same choices in real life Actually, I am someone who really enjoys lively environments. I like celebrating various festive and lively holidays. But unfortunately, I don’t have many siblings. And for a long period of time, I have been accustomed to this solitary lifestyle. But fortunately, this time I didn’t choose to stay in my comfort zone. I came here. I was moved by the enthusiasm and sincerity of every friend. Being able to gather together and have dinner makes me feel like it’s the New Year. I’m sorry Keep going Keep going When I went up to read the letter I absorbed everyone’s emotions My emotions suddenly were all expressed Although many times I am still like when I eat alone Thank you for the happiness you brought me I especially cherish every moment with you I once experienced a one-sided crush that led nowhere. I pursued a girl for three semesters while studying. After that, I never had the courage to confess to her. So later, whenever I met someone who made my heart race, my first reaction was always to retreat. But this time, the story seems different from before. I actually declared my feelings so directly to everyone. So these past few days, I’ve been thinking about which moment caused this change in me. Was it the first time on the screen when I saw your few words? Was it when we first met that you offered to help me find my slippers with such warmth? Did you check inside and see there were no slippers? Are you cold? Stand on the carpet first. Was it during our first date when we harmoniously played and sang a song together? I myself seem to have not found that standard answer but what I am sure of is on the third day of entering the cabin I was already prepared to leave with the worst-case scenario in mind Hello Hello I see your expression What’s wrong with my expression? But when I heard the knock on the door and opened the door to see you I suddenly wanted to announce to the world that the girl I care about also turned around and saw me I’m here waiting for you Really? Really You ask me why I chose such a bold and direct approach I really don’t know how to answer you (Love) is so beautiful The last part of the message is actually not in the letter. I’ve been under a lot of stress lately because I feel like I’m constantly worrying about gains and losses But I will run towards you with all my might If there’s a chance If there’s a chance I will quietly tell you the rest My hands are shaking Yes What I want to convey to Wowo is I am very determined And I am doing my best To run towards her I hope she can feel this sincerity And this honesty Isn’t this unwavering thing Because of love So beautiful A day moved to tears Xiao Hou, I am really touched I also think At our semi-mature age of 30+ There are still such passionate guys Guys who move forward without hesitation Xiao Hou, compared to everyone He is more sincere He showed That love can be like this And I admire his courage very much That’s great Wowo is here. Wowo’s voice message is here. Is she asking you to read it for her? No We just need to put on our headphones Actually, picking up the pen for me is a very difficult task There are always many words in my heart like a flood but when written down, they become few and faint like a gentle stream Looking back at the scene of meeting everyone on the first day it was strange yet interesting Suddenly, I became curious about what kind of people everyone is what the boys’ eyes look like under the ribbons and if there are any stories behind the girls’ bright smiles But soon I discovered that everyone is so interesting inclusive and warm Creative Black Swan Pastry The cabin was like a reaction vessel accelerating the chemical reactions between everyone because later something unexpected happened an earth-shattering event for me constantly challenging my usual cautious behavior Truman’s world is fake but Truman is not his world has no script perhaps not perfect but genuinely real it is a real person’s life so I just need to explain it to one person beautiful romantic a man’s romance a man’s romance his courage and passion often made me feel everything was surreal how could someone, under the public eye, so firmly follow their heart and not care about others’ opinions Thank you I always pursue the so-called inner peace of adults but one day when a pure and passionate soul approaches I am still deeply moved I hope you can thoroughly enjoy this journey But if reality does not meet your expectations Don’t let these take away your right to happiness Because a journey does not necessarily have only one purpose What you can gain is not just the friendship and love at the end but also yourself throughout the journey Just like life the reward is not at the end but in the process Great I have actually been thinking about this question I don’t want her to be affected by my bravery or by this way of pursuing to influence her What I truly hope is that she can genuinely like me as a person While writing this letter I am actually quite directly facing my own I will definitely be able to say what I want to tell him This letter My beginning is Hello, brave little coward Kaka So fast It’s been over ten days in the semi-mature cabin Thank you all for being genuine Only then did I reconcile with myself on some issues Again, I reconciled with myself Kaka, do you remember Why did you decide to come here at that time Did you tell yourself to be brave To strive to find love The day you came to the cabin The moment we met by chance I knew I had a good feeling about you I feel that in my heart That conflicted, timid little Kaka That conflicted, timid little Kaka Started to act up again Kept asking myself whether to tell you Actually, I have a good feeling about you Hello everyone I brought gifts for everyone after returning from work Callum (Hu Yunting) Thank you This is for my teacher Luo Thank you This is for you to make coffee This is “human courier” Awesome “Human courier” I am also looking forward to our date Sure I also have many questions I want to discuss with you Sure All the difficulties, cowardice, and timidity Hesitation Are my own issues But now I can proudly praise myself I have achieved what I wanted to do A date? Tomorrow? Okay Okay So we had our first date I am very excited But you told me There are still times when I feel uncertain about my future Right now, I’m telling you I will be here Anyway, I am here That is my true thought But actually, I also understand that the answer at this moment is no longer that important In the end, I choose to love myself and be true to my own feelings This is very good I can choose to wait or give up I wish to find myself in countless choices I think she is very brave I think sometimes adults are just like this I have liked, I have expressed and now I choose to leave gracefully It’s quite cool In this small house, I have had many deep conversations with a girl like Kaka. It’s like writing some It’s like writing some words I want to say to her. In the blink of an eye, the journey in the semi-mature house is already halfway through. Time flies so fast. My primary purpose for coming to the cabin is to find my other half This is a breakthrough for me And breakthroughs often come with challenges On the first day we met I experienced being ignored All of you Let me help you, okay? No Let me help you, okay? No, I’ll do it myself Even to this day I still haven’t received an invitation from a girl under the rule of girls initiating invitations I can still eat a lot today I can’t say I don’t feel a bit frustrated Fortunately, the core is still stable I felt defeated I also tried to change Here, I want to especially thank a girl During the first half of the cabin trip I spent most of it with you The sun came out You are lively, cheerful, and kind During the time spent with you I found a long-lost sense of relaxation I like being with you Not just because of your appearance But also because when I’m with you I am myself Everything between us Started from a randomly chosen breakfast The gears of fate started turning Hello The bowling ball from our first date Seemed to open a door for me Absolutely, let’s just say It was a feeling of being discovered Being perceived Being recognized Chen, you’re getting better and better And that unique dance party Released my long-held tension Completely Turn Dancing with you that time is still my most unforgettable memory in the cabin I remember we talked Neither of us are particularly brave Neither of us are particularly brave Then you bravely took a step of your own and approached the person you liked I think I should learn from your courage So under the starry sky at Yunhai Camp by the campfire I also took a step towards you Together with you we resolved the issues between us Just as we talked Emotions between people are inherently difficult to define with a few simple types But fortunately, we both agree that at this age, it’s rare to find a friend worth deepening the relationship with I cherish it I hope to continue to enjoy it wholeheartedly every day in the cabin No matter what kind of emotions they will be the best arrangement from heaven Great Brother That’s great, brother Good Very good I think this is very, very precious A growth Welcome home I think Xu Duocheng is a very warm and attentive person Sincerity is what touches me Because his expression makes me feel that the mutual affection between us is something that truly existed We can be very good friends Xu Duocheng, Keqin, and I The three of us are quite similar We all hesitate when it comes to emotions We all hesitate when it comes to emotions We have many concerns So it’s a bit like Looking into a mirror Coming to this small house Feels like pressing the pause button on my life Forcing myself to pause It allows me to stop And truly experience life itself It lets me pay more attention to the people around me After spending these days together I have been touched by everyone’s warmth The New Year’s Eve party and fireworks by the lake that day will definitely become one of the most unforgettable memories of my life. Such energy. Princess carry. Help! The conversation by the bonfire under the starry sky that night made me realize that we are all cowards in our emotions, afraid to reveal our true feelings, afraid of unrequited love. But now, I think we all need to make some breakthroughs. I will start trying to actively understand and explore the people I am interested in. Keep it up Keep it up I will also take the initiative to cook To remember your tastes and the dishes you like Make a spicy one Make a garlic one Then everyone can share and eat You can add some lettuce Rice cakes Okay Vermicelli I hope in the coming days To immerse and feel Your innermost true thoughts Face your inner emotions I wish we can all become The most sincere and brave versions of ourselves No longer be cowards in love Thank you Kaka might be the first person Who can enter my heart So I will choose to interact with her more Support This is a letter to myself Hello, Xiaoyan This year you will turn thirty Before this You were very afraid of being alone at home Often because you couldn’t find someone to accompany you You gave up doing many things you wanted to do After coming here You met many new friends Every day you can be with everyone Doing many meaningful things You have been really good since coming to the cabin I think love can bring me energy I hope this time I can follow my heart here Choose the person I love The person in the future Will definitely be full of you You will definitely encounter love It’s just that love hasn’t come yet Very good Didn’t expect her to be quite carefree Great at creating group portraits Yes, Guang Guang just shed tears Right? At which part did you start crying? One is I wish you, in countless choices to find yourself I think this is a lifelong issue that should be faced And another is You are my biggest regret coming here The biggest regret is I didn’t handle my feelings for you properly And also Xia Xia’s final bow When I participated in this show, I learned and saw these brothers and sisters, I felt they were the best dating show guests I have ever seen. Yes, everyone was able to admit their mistakes in front of everyone and work to correct them. I think this is a very rare thing. And using letters in this way is writing to oneself he will be in a quiet setting in the process of constantly looking back to ask oneself some questions and then try to answer them I think this process is quite valuable Yes I want to ask Teacher Du at this point in time using letters to let them face themselves do you think for their future or for their present will have any special significance It has great significance Writing is very, very powerful It’s different from sending messages on WeChat It’s not the same When we pick up a pen and start writing it’s actually a process of thinking When we organize our language it’s actually a process of facing ourselves and a process of organizing So this is a very, very wonderful process of self-reflection Through writing, I organize my chaotic mind What exactly do I love about this person And when I like someone what makes me like them Gradually, I understand the true meaning of love The true meaning of love is actually exploration We love someone just to explore the other person and to explore ourselves In several letters from the guests, I heard this concept. I think this is a very, very valuable growth. I think when I see them say those words, I say Chinese youth are so lovely. It is the state they present. Eight words: Everyone is clean, clear, elegant, and kind. And quite impressive. The background of the eleven selected people is all blue sea and sky. Yes, they are all quite lovely. During this trip, I kept reflecting on myself. At the same time, I once again examined the rejections I gave her. Whether they were right or wrong. Then I had another thought, that I must find an opportunity to have a good talk with her again. When I heard Xiao Hou and everyone’s letters, I realized that everyone was brave enough to express their own feelings. Then, I found myself trapped between rationality and sensibility, intertwined. I could feel his struggle and hesitation. Where did you go? We went to get the room key. And then? I left the room key in the restaurant. There’s a swing here. I like this. At times like this, I tell you, it’s perfect to open up your heart. Say things you usually don’t dare to say. We’ve been opening up our hearts for a while now. Do you want to join us? Because I just finished talking with him I realized we were almost like looking in a mirror What’s wrong Are we saying this small room isn’t full of cowards, right Yes Cowards also have different different ways of being cowardly Yes Different reasons for being cowardly Make every effort to inquire I only found out from reading the letter that Kaka likes Su Nan At that moment, my heart sank halfway I actually wanted to know at that time my position in her heart Up until now, you all What do you think What kind of person am I Am I like Su Nan What do you two think If we don’t say anything For me, I think in some ways, this “nice guy” image is slightly better than Lao Su’s. They are all “nice guys.” But relatively speaking, I think he might be more I think the way he expresses himself he might be more direct. outgoing. He would directly come up to you and say, “How are you today?” or something like that, right? But I wouldn’t. I am the type who shows it quietly through actions, right? What do you think? Old Su is a bit more outgoing than me But actually, before I was also in this state I needed to socialize with everyone I have the opportunity to tell her what kind of person I am We were just talking about how our zodiac sign affects our relationships some of the vulnerabilities or weaknesses like overthinking too much and considering too many things we are overly sensitive maybe when I pour you a glass of water your reaction is already something we think about we pay attention to details yes so I have been observing you too I think when we watch movies together that state is closer to the real you you truly enjoy those moments or something like that that’s closer to the natural state of you but in the living room or when eating you seem more tense you need to follow the conversation you need to create topics you need to talk and laugh loudly that’s also part of your social side just like at the beginning when we first met Once the situation becomes awkward you will be the first to stand up Yes, that’s right Actually, you don’t have to Sometimes I really think It’s a habit Our relationship has reached a point where even if we don’t talk here and just sit foolishly it won’t be very awkward You don’t have to handle everything and speak for others I’m exhausted I’ve wanted to collapse for a long time Yes Isn’t that great Yes You understand me Yes When the four of us were chatting He kept asking me questions proactively I could feel that he liked me Didn’t I make two relatively big meals? Yes It was the second meal Actually, it was the day before I had already planned to do that It might have been just right When we watched the movie we talked about crayfish At that time, we went to Beijing I thought that Hu Da (restaurant) was very delicious I wonder if next time we go shopping we can buy some crayfish if we manage to get some if we can buy them I can make some for everyone then I suddenly thought let’s make crayfish for everyone and Kaka can also eat it then I planned it thoroughly in advance and made detailed arrangements. But that meal what I wanted to express is I felt very touched. Because the day before, we talked in the media room. I mentioned it would be great to have rice cakes, lettuce, noodles, or something like that. You did all of that. And you told me you couldn’t find lettuce. Teacher, there were even rice cakes. Yes. That’s wonderful. I included everything you mentioned. But unfortunately, I couldn’t find green lettuce. It wasn’t available there. And then, you feel that every word is responded to, right? You feel that what you say is heard by someone, and they will act on it, and care about it. That scores highly with me. She described it to me very thoroughly. You will score highly with me. You will score highly with me. When I heard her say that, She also scores highly in my heart. She can remember your attentiveness. And she is also very attentive. When she can give you feedback, That feeling is truly wonderful. So actually, I think one more thing to confirm is I am indeed in her heart. There is a bit of presence. I wouldn’t say it’s a lot, but at least there is some presence. I feel that you are very You are really struggling But I don’t know what it’s stemming from Today, while listening to everyone’s letters I had this feeling that everyone is so amazing that they remember everything about the people around them but I might spend too much time every day on my own anxieties What are you anxious about? For example, My stress is self-imposed. I am really happy right now I am enjoying it There is that sense of contradiction I constantly feel very guilty This is also what I want I wanted to tell you when I had thought it through His pressure He didn’t explain it clearly to me He doesn’t say anything How am I supposed to know which way to go? I don’t even have a direction. So after I sort things out, I will definitely talk to you. But if you can’t wait, you can tell me. I haven’t. I just had this question today. I just wanted to ask. I find it hard to ask. Even though I really want to, I’m too scared. But I don’t dare. The letters from this afternoon must have had a significant impact on him What happened to suddenly change things like this? Yes. Even if Liang Tian is actually here, I want to ask him what kind of mindset he has. Even if you only say three words, it’s because I’m a bit unsure right now. Give me some time, or I’m not sure. He didn’t say anything. I feel like Xiao Hu is also the kind of person who doesn’t recognize his own worth. He feels unworthy. He thinks that finding an excellent girl who actually likes him, do I deserve this? I feel like he also senses the pressure of facing reality. Because this time he has to be more cautious. He can’t because he can’t hurt her. Yes. There was a time when he was with Liang Tian, and his original family caused him problems. He knows where the pain point is, but he doesn’t have a second step. You will find when a real intimate relationship is placed in front of him he is actually in a very blind state I pursue emotions by instinct I also fear emotions by instinct he has never elevated his problems to a rational level to face it, confront it, and solve it he lacks self-analysis self-reflection what we call self-questioning this most important growth stage has reached a critical point of growth it must be a struggle with oneself everything from others is external force I try to relate to the growth process of our child actually, many people in our lives Actually, including people of my age He didn’t have This kind of proactive emotional training from parents This emotional training Emotional training and self-acceptance training So it’s not necessarily possible to rely on oneself To develop A particularly complete inner core Yes I saw a theory a couple of days ago It said that our human brain Is divided into a cognitive brain and an emotional brain The cognitive brain is like a person riding an elephant The emotional brain is like an elephant But actually, we Ninety percent of handling interpersonal relationships and emotions Is done by this elephant I think he might not yet Have made the rider and the elephant Become friends Able to accept each other and recognize each other So he can’t Connect with another elephant outside Yes, well said Let me add one more thing Even based on what I just said I think Liang Tian doesn’t need to play the role of the savior Yes Yes, you don’t need to pay for this Yes Yes Teacher If someone like Liang Tian encounters such a situation what choice should be made? at such a moment I think if it were in a real relationship they should pause the relationship Just make sure Liang Tian, make sure not to make another mistake which is to act like a savior I will save you This will be another disaster’s beginning Yes They should let this relationship pause for a while let it drift for some time It’s more reasonable Understood and healthier We have to wait for Xiao Hu himself to complete this stage of growth We also provide an open discussion environment for everyone But after all, time is still moving forward It is not yet a foregone conclusion So we let the discussion happen Let the bullets fly a little longer We also hope that the friends in the cabin can follow their hearts and find their own love But after listening to everyone’s letters today I think if you can find yourself, that is also great